This is me and this is what I feel. This is me and this is what I think.
This is me and this is what I breathe.
This is me and this is what I live.
This is me and this is my Sanctuary.
My Sanctuary...
Life is always bound to be painful and joyful, can be filled with sadness or happiness, and at some point, despair or hope. My life, just like anyone else is no excuse for every malady this world has to offer. And so, I offer myself a recluse, a place to hibernate, to recoil...A Sanctuary...and this is my Sanctuary...
Maybe in 10 years time? Or sometime in our lifetime we will meet again. Just like that day when I knocked on your door and we are both beaming with smiles on our faces. Perhaps 10 years from now you have some white hair and lines on your forehead but I guess, I will never lose sight of that smile...never.
Maybe in 10 years time? We will run into each other again, somewhere, here or in the most uncanny of places. I will be older then too. I may be smarter then or wiser or still, that same immature person you frown upon whenever I have my smirk on my face. Maybe I am stronger by then or you are stronger too.
"Someday, we'll run into
each other again, I know it…Maybe I'll be older, smarter, and just plain
better... If that happens, that's when we deserve each other… "
Maybe in 10 years time? I still have your number and you finally call me...to rekindle those 10 years that we have missed. A smile, that hug, or those innumerable morning rendezvous that we have shared. Maybe, it is more than the flight of stairs or that rush in the mattress.
Maybe in 10 years time? We will deserve each other more than what we were 10 years ago. I finally get to hold you arms and never let go of it again. You finally keep me in your midst and never to be part again. Life may change 10 years from now but yes, maybe.
Maybe in 10 years time? This pain will fade away. They same time heals. Love grows. I just keep them now until that 10th year that we will meet again. I have the memories to medicate the pain and sustain me for the next 10 years of life.
Maybe in 10 years? We will be older, smarter, wiser, stronger...just plain better and in love with each other...maybe...in 10 years...
SWOT Analysis is one of the
many methods utilised for strategic planning. Apart from SWOT, there is also
the Ishikawa Diagram (Fishbone Analysis), PESTEL, EPISTEL, or STEER Analysis.
What do they have all in common? They all consider the environment for
planning. It shows to us how an effective planning should be done – it is not
one way, nor a work of one, nor to consider only one factor. That is not the
case. It involves every conceivable and inconceivable force within and outside
the environment, it goes beyond the current perspective and explore situations
that may arise or may have arisen. They
all provide every strategic planner the window to look in the past and foresee
the future to be able to generate a workable decision for the present.
Inasmuch as social marketing
is different from commercial marketing, social marketing has to position itself
strategically to the right audience with the right purpose and focus. Of
course, it will be useless if the goal is simply to inform or to raise
awareness. Social marketing aims to influence behaviours.
In generating SWOTs, it is
important that the social issue is clear and imminent. It is not just because
some issue arose, a SWOT has to be immediately generated. We get to ask, is
there a need in the first place? How appropriate is the method? How important
is it in the first place?
Of course, the campaign
purpose is always given to identify the ultimate goal of the campaign which
relates to the social issue identified. By asking, what is it in such issue
that we want to address? What should be addressed? Should we identify multiple
purposes? It can be possible, so long as there is sufficient resources t ensure
that every corresponding focus is realised.
Focus of the campaign becomes
the “need to do” part. What needs to be done in order to address such campaign
purpose? It is important that the focuses are workable and achievable. It
becomes a waste of effort if we focus on changing the President of a country
just to address the campaign purpose of low production of rice. Focuses should
be realistic enough enabling the social marketing professional to generate a
rather “tangible” yield from the campaign.
It is that feeling of boredom, of uncertainty when you see no one in your heart but the blood that surges that life through your veins. Sure, we get to be restless of waiting, of waiting and of that endless waiting every day. Even the air seems to stop with time as you hold yourself against that stolid wall and you stand with one foot, aimlessly staring above the dark night clouds.
You feel how remote you are...not even your soul you can get a grasp on. Not even your sanity who seems to be lurking but not at your threshold of consciousness. No sense of urgency, no sense of immediacy, but only that sense of want to be spending some smoky nights and wake the next day wanting to have another smoky night again. But it is just nowhere out of sight...out of reach...
As everything goes deeper and darker, you sense that single figure behind you. You tried to get a grasp on but it is immensely intangible that even your wits cannot decipher what it holds. Such future when you see nothing but bleakness and gone...You would rather wish to be ubiquitous and come shattering in space than be whole and feel that painful rip of your tears. The dust may spell destiny, and perhaps this is where solace is all about, this is where solitude and tranquility resides.
And what does that dark, abstract figure gives you? A company? A smile? Or a scornful reminder of how meaningless it is to dwell on such dreams that will never come even in your sleep. Maybe a slap to wake you up and vent on the fact that you love no one but your own shadow.
"If adults will say to children that smoking is bad, then why are they smoking?"
The Thai Health Promotion Foundation has come up with a very effective advert about quitting smoking - "the Smoking Kid". The same advert answers my question on why I should quit smoking.
Just the same, this advert answers the 9 questions posed by Lee and Kotler (2011) towards social marketing.
So why should I then quit smoking?
Because this advert focuses towards influencing the smoking behaviour amongst teens and adults alike. That in fact, this advert targets the acceptance of a new behaviour (smoking is not good), rejects a potentially undesirable behaviour (smoking for kids is not good so much so that smoking is not good for everyone), modify a current behaviour (not to smoke), and abandon an old undsirable behaviour (abandon smoking).
Because Philip Kotler & Gerald Zaltman 40 years ago have introduced the idea of utilising marketing principles towards various social causes. Which t now, has evolved already and has been greatly recognised in various causes to include health and wellness.
Because despite the fact that cigarette adverts contain notices on how smoking is bad to ones health, the primordial aim of these adverts is still to sell the idea that smoking is tolerable. While the Smoking Kid advert aims to influence a long prevalent social issue of smoking and on how it greatly diminishes ones health.
Because the Smoking Kid advert has been espoused by both the public government and non-government organisations alike pushing the aim for a healthier community.
Because the Smoking Kid advert carries with it the unique value proposition that taps into every one's subconscious. We get to ask, if adults smoke why can't children smoke then? If adults will say to children that smoking is bad, then why are they smoking? That value exchange which shows that words are not enough but it takes real action to realise and accept and eventually succeed in the influencing of one's behaviour.
Because people behind this advert goes beyond professionals whose aim is not just to make money, but to convey to people the real value of quitting smoking, thank you the the Thai health authorities and the Thai Health Promotion Foundation.
Because smoking is increasingly becoming popular not just to adults but to children as young as 10 years old. This is an alarm to everyone on how smoking becomes indiscriminate as the years go by.
Because not only that this advert was contained in Thailand, but with the advent of social media, it has become more widespread all over the world.
Because this advert covers the entire strata of the community. A call for every policy maker all over the world, a call for every tobacco manufacturer, a call for every seller, for every buyer and for every user - that smoking is bad to ones health.
So why should I then quit smoking? Because Lee and Kotler asked me 9 questions and I gave 9 answers and I have 9 reasons why I should quit smoking.
Video credit:
Thai Health Promotion Foundation- Smoking Kid Created by Ogilvy Thailand (2012)
I was able to experience and be a spectator of a house being carried by more than a dozen men from one place to another when I was a kid. I said to myself that this is really only in the Philippines when people engage in such activities - in unity to achieve a goal. True to its form and meaning, people in unity and in complete participation can definitely be able to work out and arrive at a goal. Until this date, we Filipinos, inherent in our character can definitely be able to achieve the long dreamed goal of progress if we all unite.
"We have that inherentbayanihan spirit in us.."
Participatory communication for development is such an ideal means to achieve development. We do not need to completely wait and rely on what will be given to us in order to act upon every problem and generate a solution. We have that inherent bayanihan spirit in us that should have been waking us up in deep slumber. A barangay can always unite and form a community organisation that can formulate plans to help the Barangay council in preventing the spread of dengue. Or perhaps, women in the town can become avid advocates of the importance of breast feeding to lactating mothers in their town.
We can always improve our lives by becoming a participating/active citizen rather than becoming passive and wait and cry foul over some politician whose term ended by doing nothing to make your vote worthwhile. Why not engage in community communication, generate a local newspaper where everyone can contribute as to their techniques or best practices in farming? Maybe bystanders, yaya's or mothers who are waiting outside a Day Care Centre waiting for their children to come out can engage in educational communication and talk about means and ways to earn from the used plastics, bottles, cans and other recyclable materials from their respective households.
Achieving our goals starts from small beginnings. To transfer a house from one place to another requires one to take small steps, a strong arm, a steady and focused mind and a strong passion that after such struggle, the goal will be reached - if only everyone unites and participates.
This week, we had a healthy discussion on how change, problems and development relate to one another. We have explored how these 3 concepts have woven the society albeit to its abyss of doom or to a sunshine of hope. These concepts are so vulnerable in each society that without these, a society will be stagnant, will be staple, will be static.
Change - we should never resist change. This is a part of life. But remember, change should be something for the better and not for the worse. This should be a more sensible thought rather espouse for a change that can destroy what the previous generations toiled in order to achieve the present.
"change should be something for the better and not for the worse"
Problems - are always there. It is a test on how steadfast we are with our beliefs, with our life principles. If we have a strong grip on what we believe is right or wrong, then problems will be simple to solve. A problem will always have a solution. Solutions may not be right under our nose every time, but still, all it takes is an open mind and heart to acknowledge, understand problem and eventually arrive at a workable solution.
Development - this forms part on how we justify our existence. Remember, we are here on earth because we strive to achieve development. But, it should not just be a mediocre development but something that can withstand time and become a legacy to future generations. But, development will never be achieved if we will all be denying our past, lazy with present and complacent with our future. Development does not happen overnight. It takes a conscious cooperative effort to achieve such.
just so you know,
how hurt i am
and that this pain,
will always have,
a scar, a mark.
so long as i live,
this scar will remain,
to remind me,
of the days,
that hurt is way,
above all love
in this world.